Although we resent the analogy, in so many ways, men are like dogs. We will only take what you give us, and do what you let us. When you get a new dog, and allow him to sh*t on your carpet, pee on your walls, chew you furniture & run wild through the house, he will take advantage of every opportunity to do so. But if you force him to respect your home, give him boundaries & set out rules, he will abide by them.
Much of this is the same for a man. We will always do what you let us. No matter how much we like you, we will test the limits. If you allow it, you will be taken advantage of. Once this happens, it is almost impossible to get us back in line. That goes for cheating, talking disrespectfully, being thoughtful or any other thing you can think of in a relationship. We are predators by nature, so it is innate for us to look for weakness. Once we find it, we expose it, and attack it.
If you have lost control of your relationship and your man is running wild, it may be too late to reel him in. Or it may be time to let him know that you are weighing your options. If there is one thing that many women forget, is that you have the power. Everything we do, whether its making money, fashion, working out, buying a nice car, or getting a haircut, is for the attention of women. When you recognize that power, you can take back your relationship. If you give it up, we will dominate you.
Remember, no matter how big and vicious the dog is, if it respects you, it will never bite!!!!!
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